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A Christmas Thought

So, here we are and Christmas is only 4 days away. It begs the continuously asked question  - Where did the time go?
 
Christmas, a time of light, joy gifts, fun & laughter and family. Every 25th December we meet folk who actually say hello to us; people smile and wish a seasons greeting; children actually behave and parents looked surprised and pleased with the socks/tie/perfume/aftershave/chocolates ... again!
 
2000 years ago (not to the day) a baby was born. "So what?" I hear ... well imagine ... some of you say. Well amongst a mass migration of people because of a census, a young girl and her fiance travelled to a small and insignificant town called Bethlehem. Once they arrived they had difficulty in finding a room for the night and ended up in a cold stable and there, that night the baby I mentioned earlier was born.
 
It was a significant birth, announced by the 'birth' of a new bright star and proclaimations from angels. It was a significant birth that became the pivotal point of history. We mark our time from that birth, BC = before Christ and AD = Anno Domini (after the year of our Lord).
 
Today we put up a tree, we cover it in lights and put a star on top, around the base of the tree we place presents for those we love and care for.
 
Today Christmas can be a time of expense, gluttony, worry and stress but if we go back to the real meaning of Christmas then all that can be dealt with. Christmas is about a gift. A gift from God to the world. Jesus, God's gift to you and to me, was wrapped in human flesh an here on Earth with us. He lived among His creations an today he is waiting for us to reach out our arms and receive Him. "Jesus ... I invite you into my Christmas, into my life." That is all you need to say.
 
With each gift you give and receive this Christmas - pause and remember the Gift of God. As you unwrap your presents remember Mary giving birth to The Son of God. Then invite Him into your home, into your heart and into your Christmas - I guarantee you will not receive a better present this Christmas ... or in any Christmas yet to come.
 
Happy Christmas to you all. God Bless

It's December!!

Where has the time gone? My aim was to keep this blog up to date but I realise that it has been a long time since writing.
 
Well ... it's December. That means that we only have one month left of 2011, and it's only 24 days until Christmas. I wonder what dominates your thoughts throughout December? Is it the stress of preparing for Christmas? Is it the end of year and planning for the new one, setting dates for holidays and events?
 
I try and take a fairly relaxed attitude to December. I try to allow things to flow in the usual hap hazard way they seem to in my life. I look forward to Christmas but with very tight guidelines, I am not getting involved in the 'present competition' ... whose is the best, the biggest and most expensive. We have a budget and that is stuck to adamantly - after all Christmas is not about presents!!
 
I don't pass judgements or comments on the way others do their Christmas, that's their choice. I will say that I wish you all a very happy Christmas and wonderful time with whomsoever you decide to spend it with.
 
The gift of God this Christmas, as it is with each Christmas, is the opportunity to receive Jesus. Not as a baby in a manger, all cute and cuddly but as a Saviour, scarred by whips and nails. Receive the gift of Jesus this Christmas and remember ... Jesus is for eternity not just Christmas!
 
Merry Christmas

A well needed rest!!

I suddenly realised that it has been quite a while since I updated my blog, I've simply been too busy. This led me to think about how busy I am ...
 
Isn’t it amazing how busy we allow ourselves to get? I mean no matter how much pressure we put on ourselves, no matter how many tasks we put on our ‘to-do list’, calls to make, jobs to finish, projects to start and the list goes on but there are still and always will be only 24 hours in a day and 7 days in a week.

21st century life would have you believe that your job is the most important thing in your life. It MUST come first … well let me break some news to you here; It isn’t!!

You are more important than your job; your health and well being. Your family is more important than your job, children who grow up so fast that before you know it they are leaving home. Your job is a means to an end, to provide the means to keep a roof over your heads and food in your bellies. Your well being and your health alongside your family is your responsibility.

Strangely enough, I bet your company would run perfectly well if you weren’t there, oh some colleagues might miss you for a while but the company would continue.

Your family would have a huge gap if you weren’t there, children missing a parent; husband or wife missing their partner; mum or dad missing a child.

God created the world in six days and then He took a day to rest … if God needed to rest one day in seven then I think that maybe we should as well. I’m not advocating the ‘do nothing’ for one day I’m simply stating that we need to take it easy and slow down once in a while. I’m sure that if we did this our health would improve, our relationships would improve and I am certain that our work would improve.

Try it and see.

It's your life - It's your choice.

I came into the office this morning through the wind, the dark clouds and the rain. It was dull and and a reminder that we are on the brink of Autumn.
 
I am going through a really challenging time at the moment all to do with the subject of change. We face change so often and yet when we see it happening we tend to try and stay the same. We feel comfortable as things are, we know how things work - if we change it there is the unknown and the uncomfortable, we'd have to get used to a new way of doing things and that will take time.
 
I remember being about 8 years old and standing in the school playground having the most horrific thought. As I looked around I thought that nothing is going to change. I am going to be 8 years old forever and everything else would stay exactly as it was on that day. Well, I'm glad to say that things did change, I am no longer 8 ... in fact I'm closing the gap on 48 ...
 
Our lives need to change too, not just what goes on around us, not just circumstances but the way we think and act. In the Bible we are encouraged to have the attitude or mindset of Christ:
 
"... have the same mindset as Christ Jesus: Who, being in very nature God, did not consider equality with God something to be used to his own advantage; rather, He made himself nothing by taking the very nature of a servant, being made in human likeness. And being found in appearance as a man, He humbled Himself by becoming obedient to death — even death on a cross!

Therefore God exalted Him to the highest place and gave Him the name that is above every name, that at the name of Jesus every knee should bow, in Heaven and on earth and under the earth, and every tongue acknowledge that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the glory of God the Father." (Philippians 2:5 - 11 NIV)

We need to change the way we think and the way we treat others, we need to change the attitude we go through life with and slowly we can change the world. Thinking of others first rather than pushing ourselves forward all the time makes a huge difference.

Jesus set us a fantastic example and as I have recently been reminded He made the way forward so easy. He paid the price on the cross, all we have to do is choose - choose to change the direction we are travelling in and instead of always wanting to lead be a follower! Now that is different - become a follower of the the creator of life, the universe and everything.

Your choice today - do you want to change the path that your life is on? Do you want to follow the One who has ALL the answers?

But ...I LIKE my old trainers!!

How do you react to something new. Change is inevitable but often uncomfortable. Do you allow the comfort of the old to stop you moving into the new?

Let me give you an example:I recently purchased a new pair of Merrell trainers/ walking shoes. I bought these because the last pair I purchased (about 6 years ago) have finally given up the ghost, they leak and the soles have finally worn through.

I put my new ones on and they look smart, but they are just not comfortable. I wore them for an evening around the house and they just don't feel right. They feel tight, stiff, clumpy and flat. I prefer my old ones. I mean ... they have adapted to the shape of my feet. The soles have worn to the way I walk. The sides have stretched so that my feet fit comfortably inside ... but they leak, they have holes and are not really usable.

I think life is a bit like my old trainers. I like the comfort of it but things have worn out, things have naturally come to an end. The new trainers feel stiff and uncomfortable but I have to give them time to adapt to my feet.

Change is not always easy ... sometimes it is very uncomfortable, but eventually it will feel as if we have always done whatever the change has brought. My old trainers should really be thrown away ... but they still have a place in my wardrobe, because sometimes I will slip into them, just for the comfort, and ... I'll recall how good they were.

Don't let the temporary discomfort of new trainers stop you from using them. The discomfort will go and before you know it the change will feel as if it has always been there.

Maybe, in life, it's time for a new pair of shoes.

The Choice

In life we suffer many mishaps, many difficulties and many worries. Things happen which we are unable to explain, things that we see that are difficult to accept, events that we cannot justify.

We live in a world that has so much beauty yet we seem to see so much ugliness. On the one hand we see the vivid colours of nature; the beautiful sunsets; the fantastic scenery around us and the wonder and splendour of life just happening around us … the beauty. On the other hand we see wars, murder, abductions, greed and malice. We see hatred, violence and selfishness … the ugliness.

 

Sometimes I wonder how the ugliness came about when the Bible states that God looked at His creation and it was very good. If it was all good where did sin and the ugliness come from? The answer is that it came from within the human being. God gave man (and when I use the word man I am talking mankind not just males) a free will. He allowed man the choice as to whether to follow Him or do it our own way.

 

Have you ever stood a child in front of a plate of cakes or sweets and told them that they can any cake or sweet on the plate except one? Try it and I pretty much guarantee that they will want the one that you have said is off limits … well that is pretty much what God did and we choose the one that was off limits and as a result Sin entered the world. Sin brings with it all the ugliness that we have been talking about (I say we … of course I mean I).

 

How do we deal with it then? Well the truth is that we can’t deal with it. Sin is global and inherent in our nature, God dealt with it through Jesus. God became a human being, lived and died on earth and rose again from death to make way open for us to live in communion with God again. All we have to do is step from our path onto His and it is done. It really is that simple.

 

Oh … we’ll carry on sinning, but we can try and make a choice to do the right thing and not allow our fallen, sinful, ugly nature to lead us to the wrong thing. In making a choice we make a difference and once again the beauty of the creation around us becomes visible.

 

The choice is ours – what will you do?

Hell on Earth?

I'm sure, that along with many of the adults in this nation ... and around the world ... we are watching the news of the rioting and looting in England with a real sense of shame and embarrassment.
 
Young people have united not in protest; not in opposition against a common enemy; not even in the name of a good cause but in gangs to riot and loot just because they can. I ask you what sort of attitude is that. I hang my head in shame.
 
I worry for the people who are too frightened to go home because they are in the areas where these gangs are on the rampage. I worry for the police who are trying to do their job in keeping some sort of order. I worry for the young people being led down a path to destruction for the price of goods that they can loot from hard working business owners. I worry for our country.
 
For so long we have watched these sorts of things on the TV as they have happened in other countries and shaken our heads and then carried on with life because it's happening elsewhere. For so long we have let the standards of right and wrong get blurred until they are too difficult to see. We have failed our young people ... because we have failed to teach them to respect authority and to respect other people. We have failed our young people people because we have removed discipline from their upbringing. We have failed our young people because in the eyes of many of them CRIME PAYS and the punishment is not a threat.
 
The Bible has warned us that these days will come, when people will become lovers of themselves, of money and will steal from the elderly, from the weak and will not listen to reason. We have read about these days in the hope that they would not happen in our lifetime ... well that day, it seems, is TODAY.
 
Rather than posting this as a negative blog I want to challenge us all. What can we do to change things? It is no good watching the news and shaking our heads! It is no good tutting and casting the blame and tarring all young people as hoodlums. We have the power to stand together, we have the power to make a difference.
 
We need to lead by example and we need to PRAY FOR OUR NATION. We need to love our young people and we need to declare the Good News that changes people. Our nation needs God more than any time in it's history ... our young people need God and purpose ... our government needs wisdom and support ... so let's stand together to make a difference.
 
Tomorrow is a new day, a day of hope and opportunity - let's open the door and step in.

Tired … yet fulfilled.

I have just finished a most energetic and tiring week, well, I say I have finished it but the in reality the climax is today.

I have been heading up the running of a week long holiday club with 78 children coming along each day. We have been following the story of the rescue of the Israelites from slavery in Egypt by the most awesome power of God.

It has been interesting to learn:

a)      Sometimes God takes time to answer our prayers.

b)      Human arrogance often makes a bad situation much worse

c)       God is awesome in power

Let’s look quickly at each one of these and see how they apply to our lives.

a)      Sometimes God takes time to answer our prayers.

How often do we pray for an answer to a situation and then we give up praying because the answer does not appear immediately? Then we moan that God doesn’t answer prayer so what is the point in praying?

The Israelites were in forced labour making bricks with some very hard task masters. They cried out to God to save them and Moses was born … strangely as a baby. God’s answer was going to take time.

Moses should have been killed as a baby but God saved him and placed him in a place of safety.

It is another 40 years or so before we hear of Moses again, and then he kills an Egyptian and flees for his life, he lives in the desert for another 40 years and in all this time the Israelites are praying for their freedom and being treated as slaves. Would we have given up praying by this point?

 

b)      Human arrogance often makes a bad situation much worse

God starts demonstrating His power to Pharaoh by turning the water to blood. Pharaoh calls his magicians who turn what water is left into blood as well; God fills the land with frogs, Pharaoh’s magicians bring MORE frogs; the same with the flies.

You would have thought that if Pharaoh were trying to outdo God an impress his people that he would have commanded his magicians to get rid of the plagues from God not add to them.

Pharaoh’s arrogance began to cost the Egyptians and their economy very dear. They suffered incredible illness and then lost cattle & livestock, crops and finally their firstborn children. If only Pharaoh had responded at plague one!! One by one God tackled the gods of the Egyptians and defeated them until finally the Egyptians had nothing left and demanded that the Israelites leave. Hmmmmm – sometimes in our arrogance we hold out against God but in my experience He generally wins, No!! He always wins!!

 

c)        God is awesome in power

Having been cast out from Egypt the Israelites find themselves up against the Red Sea with the Egyptians racing up behind them and they, in faith … moan at Moses. Moses talks to God and this is the answer that is given:

“WATCH, TODAY YOU WILL SEE THE SALVATION OF GOD”

Those words are still yelled out to those crying out to Him – Today … you can see the salvation of God.

The Red Sea was parted and … well … you know the story.

God demonstrated His awesome power in the presence of a doubting people, even though they were terrified and were moaning at Moses and God, God still rescued them and the story is still told to us and by us today.

 

So, to finish I want to remind us all that God is still in the business of saving people today. By the blood of Jesus we are rescued from the plague of sin, the sea of death is parted and we receive new life in the Promised Land … in the presence of God.

 

WOW!! A tiring but totally fulfilling week; sowing seed and hearing again the message of salvation.

 

BACK TO WORK TOMORROW FOR A REST … lol

Friends or FRIENDS?

As I sit here pondering, I realise that friends are some of the most valuable things in life. Friends stand by you when things get tough and you need to lean on someone. They help, they call, they rally round and do what they can.

I'm pleased to say that I have a few close friends, I can probably count them on the fingers of both my hands. To some that may not seem like many but to know that when I need them they are there and that they will stop whatever they are doing to assist me is a reassuring thing. I value my friends and I am not going to embarrass anyone by naming people, You know who you are.

I am also amazed at the way Facebook encourages us to call people friends that we, sometimes have never met; maybe met once; or are friends of friends. How easy to use a word and belittle it's true meaning. I have 'friends' on FB that I don't think I ever chat with, comment on, or meet up with - maybe these are not friends but acquaintances, or just adding to the number showing how 'popular' I am - maybe I'm just rambling to fill a blog space? My point ...

Joseph M. Scriven wrote the well known and popular hymn What A Friend We Have In Jesus and I have to admit to this being amongst my favourite hymns. The words are true: In Jesus we have a friend who is faithful and true; who doesn't talk about us behind our back; is always available to talk to and if He says something will be done then it WILL be done. He looks at my potential NOT my failures, He sees my strengths NOT my weaknesses and He forgives me whole-heartedly. He is a friend who walks with me on a daily basis even when I forget to include Him, He never takes offence, He never let's me down and He NEVER reminds me of past failings. Jesus is the sort of friend who loves ... unconditionally, He has no favourites and whatever He is doing He'll stop to be with you when you need Him.

"Greater love has no-one than this, that he lay down his life for his friends." Jesus fulfilled the definition of a true friend. Is He in your list?

Relax! ... it's not wrong to relax!

I wonder sometimes why we have so many things to do in life. The older I get the more jobs seem to need doing … and for me, I afraid to admit, it is so easy to procrastinate. "Oh never mind, there’s plenty of time … I can do that tomorrow!" Famous last words.

Well with all that in mind I want to remind you (and myself) that in His work of creating the universe (no I’m not going to argue with you about that … my belief is that He did and therefore I write from that point of view!!) God worked on His creation for six days and then He rested.

God rested on day 7

God worked at creating the beautiful surroundings in which we live. He spoke light; He spoke oceans, sky, clouds. He spoke flowers, trees and shrubs; he spoke birds, fish and animals … large and small. God did all this just by speaking. The power of His word!

I love to imagine, sometimes what a wonderful place the world … and the universe … must have been in those first few moments

Then the Bible goes on to say that God created man … "Let us MAKE man" (Gen 1:26). Now for all those of you who are now going to correct me, in the Bible Man refers to Human beings … male & female.

So God sets to work creating humans to inhabit tend and nurture His creation.

God didn’t NEED to rest – but it is my belief that He was instigating the principle of having one day in seven to allow our bodies to rest and recuperate. So why do we fill every 24 hour period with stuff … which if we are really honest is not going to make much difference. We put pressure upon ourselves to achieve, to keep up with – nay! If possible overtake those around us. To get noticed by our boss for our achievements and to receive a reward which will, only temporarily, satisfy us and give us purpose.

Slow down and take it easy, try just one day in seven to have a slow day. Allow your body to rest and rejuvenate ready for the next six day onslaught – because it IS coming! 

We hear of the many job cuts, the fact that our money is worth less today than it was a couple of years ago and therefore we are all having to work twice as hard just to stand still. But, what is important? It’s ok to have the nice things we have but when it comes at the cost of our heath was it worth it. Focus on the things that are important … for me it is the Kingdom stuff. Living for God, sharing His good news and demonstrating what He has done for me.

So when I next say "there’s not enough time" … I need to remember that there is plenty of time I just need to refocus.

Have a good week/day/whatever and remember that putting your feet up for a while is NOT a sin!!